Sometimes my young adults (children) have a problem expressing their feelings when they feel wronged or hurt. I let them know not to let their feeling rule them even when they are right. Its not just how you feel but how you deal with the feeling, so it does'nt make matters worst now or in the future. Young people are so angry and waiting for a outlet and plenty of their peers push them to a bad end thinking its being grown or self sufficient. But beware what you reap you will sow. Its never what you do but how you do it that brings peace and maturity. Teach your children by example. Love your children with the power of love in God.