Fathers In Action
|Posted on June 15, 2020 at 11:15 PM||comments (399)|
Its time for fathers to show all these young people that they are doing the right thing, and not to stop until the system asked them what else do they need. Our lives as fathers have caused our children to suffer. Lack of education, Low paying Jobs, drugs and alcohol, no medical service just enough to get to the next pay check. Bad relationship because of lack, crime, self hate. How can we do better if we are not allowed. Fathers be that light for your children when they get ti...Read Full Post »
|Posted on June 14, 2020 at 8:30 PM||comments (399)|
Dont let my black daddiness get in your way or fool you I am a father. I speak to fatherhood not by color but by how I love my children. I don't teach or model hate of anyone to my children. It's not right to raise my children ignorant. Their mother left them I never taught them to hate her but to pray for and love her and it hurt like hell but, I did'nt want to cultivate or carry that seed of hate and anger. I'm 3 generations out of plantation share cropping Slavery. I realize...Read Full Post »
|Posted on June 11, 2020 at 8:15 PM||comments (131)|
Being a father does not always look or feel good, always being the one who makes decisions nobody likes or understands. You really never get use to it you just bare with it for the sake of holding down the family. You have to always have them no matter what. That means even in a Pandemic or total Racial Upheaval. We must be Dad no matter what!!, even if they leave you or curse you God will bless your work as long as you followed his plan because he got you...Read Full Post »
|Posted on June 6, 2020 at 9:50 PM||comments (115)|
Yes I believe we can make things better racially, but where do we start? My sites are on education for our children from Kindergarden to College. Not just on the system appologized and we can be ok now. Explain how and why we were enslaved. Then economically give back and level the field across the board. Education employment, housing, Health care, credit, and recognition of all our historical contrbutors in every field. Then contribute to every black owned business profit or n...Read Full Post »
|Posted on June 3, 2020 at 9:00 PM||comments (139)|
If I keep in mind there is a great God and that my Goal is to please him and love my family and others.
If I manage to keep focused on the prize, Justice for all people of color
If I remember that its not just about me but everybody else.
If I Stay in the now and do all I can today to make a change.
If I can move on from the past and not try to be in the future ...Read Full Post »
|Posted on May 31, 2020 at 9:35 PM||comments (347)|
It's okay to be angry and let people know what your angry about and what you want them to do about it. How you handle it can either get change and great respect or cause more damage to the situation. I have a opinion and I have a plan and a vision. Most seem to just have a angry opinion. We need to have solutions that we all partake in and enforce. We need to do all the things for others that we can do for ourselves. Less talking and more doing after the talk...Read Full Post »
|Posted on May 30, 2020 at 10:10 PM||comments (181)|
As much as I'd like to think my feeling don't control me sometimes I'm dead wrong. Its never a day I don't have to think through a feeling because of my past perception of a situation or person. Once I learned that people places and things were not always what I believed they were. (Explaination) I believed that as a father, I was responsible for all the bad things that happen in my childrens lives. I was taught this at a young age and responded like a str...Read Full Post »
|Posted on May 26, 2020 at 9:20 PM||comments (165)|
Its time to Vote. No more blaa blaa blaa its time to Vote I dont care what you heard. If you don't speak up who will. No whole lotta rap, get everybody you can to vote, then stand on your vote in principle and deed. We deserve the best just as much as everyone else but if we settle for less thats what we might get. Its time to vote for ourselves. Fathers teach and persuade your people to VOTE!!!
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|Posted on May 25, 2020 at 9:35 PM||comments (116)|
Sometimes my young adults (children) have a problem expressing their feelings when they feel wronged or hurt. I let them know not to let their feeling rule them even when they are right. Its not just how you feel but how you deal with the feeling, so it does'nt make matters worst now or in the future. Young people are so angry and waiting for a outlet and plenty of their peers push them to a bad end thinking its being grown or self sufficient. But beware what you reap you...Read Full Post »
|Posted on May 24, 2020 at 10:45 PM||comments (100)|
What I learned. When my life warrented a good woman she was my backbone when life kicked my back out. Father dont ever think that the mother of you children will never pop up again. You can never be a mom not even on you best dad days. Remember that all children (unless a tradegy) have two parents. Its hard for any single parent to raise children alone. So give your children a future hope for them and their mom, not you. Then your children will respect yo...Read Full Post »